I’m a Maker of Lists

So much is going on right now I had to start making “to do” lists, but this morning I accomplished a miracle – I walked into a clinic and got a COVID CPR test on the spot! One of my lists cited all the sites I’d tried to register for a test to no avail. I had to pay for it today, but after being told I’d be on stand-by for today in case someone cancelled, a very kind technician said, “Oh I’ll take her in between registered persons!” I was in and out in ten minutes! Sometimes there are advantages to being an “old lady!”

I’ll soon be on my way to Costa Rica with a friend to bird in the high Savegre Mountains at Savegre Mountain Lodge. I needed to get a COVID test to be sure I wasn’t asymptomatic! Now I can cross that off the list. But I have a list of things to do, write-up, purchase etc. for the pet sitter, another list of things to do around the house, and a third list of items to pack.

Alfred used to say he sometimes thought my lists had lists, and he’s right, I do have “sub-topics” but I find it is the only way to keep track of minutiae, i.e. do I have enough cat litter to last until I go and until I get back, which food is my finicky cat going to be willing to eat and do I have enough, stop the newspaper, what about the mail, do I have enough of a food supply for the bird feeders, how am I going to pack a camera bag, binoculars, handbag, book and carry one and make it look like just two items?

Then there are book presentations and book stores to follow-up on, dog grooming, clothes decisions – is everything clean and in good repair – altitude medication to pick up, and on it goes – 54 line items at this point! Who could possibly remember all that without lists!

I’ve been known to get up at 3 a.m. if I wake up and think of something that I’m sure I forgot to put on one list or another. Making lists is one thing, but there is a wonderful sense of satisfaction when something gets crossed off the list – done – and pure euphoria when everything is marked “done” and I’m on my way out the door to a new adventure. More about that when I return home!

Tradition! It’s important This Time of Year

 

In the story, Fiddler on the Roof, there is a song, “Tradition!” which, in thought, is applicable to all religions and cultures.

Christmas Eve was full of traditions in my family. We opened our gifts on Christmas Eve, with the morning bringing only filled stockings and whatever else Santa might have delivered during the night. And while Christmas Day was family-filled fun, even as my family got smaller, it still had its traditions. There was always a special meal, we always played “Silent Night”, sometimes I played it on the piano and later, I played a record, a cassette and then a CD. But it had to be the preamble to opening gifts. There were always Christmas cookies and milk – coffee sometimes as I got older – after the wrappings were disposed of and we’d watch the dogs playing with their new toys.

My husband’s death left me alone to carry on the traditions – which I still do. Which I find I must do. To do otherwise would be a violation of the highest order. Something special for supper, toys for the dogs, “Silent Night” as the preamble to gift opening- which now takes very little time being an old lady alone. But still, milk and cookies are a must afterwards. I don’t know that I’ll hang my stocking this year. Santa doesn’t have a helper in the house, but I will plan something nice for Christmas breakfast. And then, as I have for the past 41 years (missing last year due to COVID) I will spend the day with friends who have become a family to me as I’ve watched two generations be born and grow into adulthood. We share so many memories – the turnip that wouldn’t get cooked, jokes that get repeated every year, and stories about how my husband Alfred always said yes to all the offerings when dessert time came around.

Yes, tradition is important, It’s the glue that holds one together when things might otherwise seem to fall apart. Merry Christmas everyone and to all a good night – and a good year of maintaining traditions in the days and months ahead.

Hi Everyone!

There’s sure a lot going on around here now. I don’t know what a book launch is, but I’ve been told I get to go to the one being hosted by the Yankee Golden Retriever Club and the Yankee Rescue who saved me.  And I hear my photo is on the book jacket.  I understand there will be treats there! I like treats! And Anna is not coming, so that means I get them all! My friend Carolyn is going to groom me so I look handsome – of course I’m always handsome, but she’s going to make me look especially so! So I look forward to seeing everyone and collecting lots of pets! Bye for now! Apollo

Woof! My name is Apollo!

Golden RetrieverWoof! My name is Apollo, but Joy seems to call me ‘No Bark Apollo” a lot because I like to bark at everything I see. I was taken off the streets of Istanbul, Turkey, kept in a shelter for many months because airplanes couldn’t fly me to the United States because of something called COVID-19. I was picked up at JFK airport by some nice people who drove me north to Massachusetts and the Yankee Golden Retriever Rescue shelter.

Soon after I arrived a nice lady who was grooming me said “Have you thought about this dog for Joy?” It seems Joy had a Yankee Golden from Turkey and was looking for another. I turned on my charm and Joy took me home, gave me treats, a nice bed, a fenced yard, walks and she let me sleep on her bed at night! I like to cuddle.

My reward is to serve as the neighborhood sentry, I bark when someone walks down our street, when someone passes through the adjoining woods, when that turkey bird comes to feed on the corn Joy puts out, when the deer herd passes through and sometimes just for the heck of it. I also have been known to make an announcement when a leaf falls off a tree. As we live in the woods, that happens often. Joy doesn’t seem to think that’s an occurrence worthy of note, but I think otherwise.

There’s another dog living here too. She’ s a Black Lab mix Joy took in when her owner died. Joy calls her a stomach on four legs because she eats anything that hits the floor. Sometimes that includes my treats because she is so fast to snatch them up. I’m a much more refined eater and Joy says I have the gentlest mouth she’s ever known. Speaking of my mouth, I’m told I’m going to see a Doggie Dentist soon and have several teeth and roots pulled out. I don’t think I like the sounds of that, but I’ll tell you about it on my next posting. Until then, be good to your dog. –Apollo Viola

My Life with Golden Retrievers

           His name was Sunset Lad, “Laddie”. The year was 1944 and he was my first Golden. His sire was the nationally-renown Ch. Tonkahof Bang owned by the businessman Henry Norton of Tonkahof Kennels, Wayzata, Minnesota. Laddie became the stud dog for my parents’ kennel, Winyon Kennels, established in Alderwood Manor, Washington. (My name is on the AKC kennel registration as well.) Laddie’s partner was Tawny, Dawn O’ Light, whose sire was also a national specialty winner, Ch. Highland Chief, half-brother to Bang. I can still remember the night the first litter was born. I ran screaming into my parents bedroom saying “Mommy, Mommy Tawny’s having puppies on my bed!” I named everyone of the ten puppies after my school classmates, the bully, the sweetest one, the prettiest one, the most awkward and I did that for every litter thereafter for many years.

My Mother never seemed to stick with anything for very long so when we moved back to Minnesota, the dogs gave way to her newest interest, the ownership of an antique shop. I preferred the dogs. But we always did have a Golden in the house. When my father died and my Mother and I moved to Boston, we once again bought a Golden, Camelot, who took great exception when Alfred started coming around, nudging him away from me every time Alfred came courting! Cammy became the first of many Golden to find eternal rest in our Wayland, MA woods.

  After several years of marriage and working on our respective careers, we got a call one night to come see the new 8-week-old Golden puppy a fellow faculty member and his wife had just obtained. That did it! I could not go on without a Golden and for three days I hounded Alfred to let me get a puppy from that litter, He finally gave up and we arranged to have a neighbor boy come every day after school to walk and play with Princess D’Or “Diora.” That first night, Alfred set the alarm and got up every two hours to let her out. By morning she was housebroken!

Each day as we went to work, we put the radio on WCRB, Boston’s classical music station, and left her with lots of toys. She adapted well to our routine. One Friday evening, after a long and hard week at work, we came home, fed her, let her out and went back out to eat at a neighborhood restaurant. Diora was not happy with us and she let us know. When we came home, she was sitting in piles of stuffing from the family room couch which she had torn to shreds. She trained us well. We never went out to dinner on a work night after that!

  In 1986, while visiting our Vet, I saw a notice about an organization called Yankee Golden Retriever Rescue. Why would Goldens need a rescue organization, I thought. I soon got my answer and began a decades-long commitment to Golden rescue. I worked on the Dog Walk Committee, chaired the annual auction for years, did home visits, sold calendars and then, in 1991, upon my retirement from Northeastern University, I began a capital campaign to raise funds for what would become Riverview, the first Golden Retriever Rescue shelter in the nation. Alfred surprised me one day by suggesting we donate the funds necessary to name the facility and with that, the Alfred and Joy Viola Shelter and Adoption Center came into being. Throughout my fund-raising endeavors, my mentor was a woman beloved in the Golden community, Rachel Paige Elliott. It was my honor to speak on behalf of the Golden Retriever world at her memorial services when she joined her Goldens at Rainbow Bridge.

Once that task was completed, I moved on to volunteer as Director of Development for the Golden Retriever Foundation founded by the Golden Retriever Club of America. I raised another $1.5 million for the Foundation to aid their financial assistance to Golden rescue groups across the country and to canine medical research, especially in the field of cancer which plagues the breed all too often.

Subsequently, a woman approached me about her idea to raise funds to stabilize the ruins of Guisachan House, the mansion in the Scottish Highlands upon the estate of which the Golden Retriever was founded in 1868. The non-profit Friends of Guisachan was established in 2014, I served as President and chief fund raiser and then became Chairman of the Board, a position I hold to this day. We raised funds to erect a life-size bronze statue in the historic conservation village of Tomich, Invernesshire on former Guisachan lands. Currently funds are being raised to erect a permanent stone marker in front of the mansion ruins, but the COVID-19 outbreak has precluded any work on the mansion itself.

My efforts on behalf of Goldens were recognized by the Sandy Sonntag Service Award and life membership from the Yankee Golden Retriever Club, Honorary membership from the Maine Golden Retriever Club and it was with great surprise and humility I received the Vern Bower Humanitarian Award in 2008 from the Golden Retriever Club of America.

But it’s not the awards I was working for. It’s the big brown eyes and often white faces of my Goldens whose unconditional love is the greatest reward of all.

But it’s one thing for me to tell you about my involvement with Goldens over the years. Better you should hear from the current object of my affection, Apollo, who will be contributing remarks regularly to this website. Hello Again! It’s me, Apollo! This is my second entry, but I’m not so chipper today. I had a lot of dental surgery and I’m still on something called Gabapentin that has me pretty sluggish. Joy talked to the vet today and they are going to take me off of this now, so maybe I’ll feel like barking at the neighbors again. I really haven’t been doing much these past 48 hours but sleeping. I had six extractions and two root canals. And they tell me I have to go back later for four more extractions. I guess I didn’t get very nutritious food in my younger days and now I’m paying the price. Joy has to fix me soft food for two weeks and no milk bones or hard treats. I’m not even supposed to have my toys right now as the vet doesn’t want me to chew on anything. So life is kind of boring. I’ll try to write a happier note next time. So keep visiting me each week and I’ll post a new note. Love, Apoll0          

What Happens When a Kitty Enters The Dog House!

There is a new member in the Viola Household. She’s a young Russian Blue mix kitty and Apollo and Anna are both curious and somewhat intimidated by this 8-pound little creature.

As both Apollo and Anna are affectionate at times, neither is a cuddler and for the past couple of months I’d been thinking how nice it would be to have a kitty sitting on my lap purring and cuddling. Well, Saturday night I brought home “Teresa” from a car shelter, after going to see “Miss Happy Birthday” who bit me 5 times in between her purrs and then attacked “Teresa” when she came over to say hello to me! Not the cat for me! Both cats were among 40 cats removed from a house when the owner died. Several shelters stepped up to take the cats, and five went to the Pat Brody Shelter which I found during my searching on-line. The next day, actually at 4 a.m., I couldn’t sleep so I got up, went on-line and started looking for Russian girl’s names. Hence Mishka! – with my own spelling.

It’s been an interesting three days – especially the first 36 hours. I decided Al’s former study would be a good “kitty house” initially so I could keep the cat and dogs apart and introduce them slowly. I also was told to introduce Mishka to the house slowly – one room at a time, so for the first two days I had a series of revolving doors between dogs and the cat with time set aside for all three individually. In order to share the adventure with my family, I kept track of the day’s schedule:

Get up, let dogs out, feed dogs.

Go upstairs, ask Mishka how she slept, feed her and clean litter box.

Go downstairs and stuff Kongs with peanut butter and kibble for the dogs during the Patriots game

Go walk the dogs.

Go back upstairs and play with Mishka and clean the litter box again.

Bring Mishka downstairs and out to the sun room so she can start to learn about her new home. Keep dogs on the other side of the glass door so they can see but not touch.

Take Mishka back upstairs to her room and go down to the living room and open up the box with the cat tower I’d purchased so kitty could look out the window and watch the bird feeders

Spend the next 1 ½ hours trying to assemble the cat tower parts – unsuccessfully even though every part was numbered. (Where’s Al !! I’m not mechanically inclined and the tower is still assembled unsteadily and incorrectly with parts and screws left over)

Watch the first half of the Patriots game with the dogs.

Give the dogs their kongs and put them in two separate rooms so Anna doesn’t steal Apollo’s and bring Mishka down to the living room to watch the second half of the Patriots game.

After the game, switch to the Red Sox playoff game, take Mishka back to her room, put batteries in a little radio so she has some music, and then go let the dogs out.

Feed the dogs, the cat, and me (a hamburger.)

Watched “The Equalizer” on TV then let the dogs out for the last time and go into Mishka’s room to spend a little time with her.

Crawl into bed exhausted.

Yesterday went a little more smoothly, having it now down to a routine – put dogs away, introduce Mishka to a new room, bring dogs back out, take one dog into bedroom with Mishka for one-on-one introductions. Walk dogs. Feed everyone, clean the litter box, give everyone treats

Today is day three and we’ve made great progress. Mishka likes Anna, it seems – no hissing – and although she walks around her. Mishka seems unafraid, but Anna is still somewhat intimidated. Apollo remains curious and has now decided he wants Mom to cuddle, rub his tummy at least twice a day and tell her he’s happy to cuddle, he loves her – why did she get a cat!

Lunch was peaceful. The dogs sat and stared at my sandwich, per usual, Mishka walked past both of them, assumed a comfortable position on the sofa and proceeded to go to sleep. Both dogs decided to do likewise once Mom was though eating, so I read the newspaper and the three critters slept in co-habitation peacefully! Stayed tuned…

Calendar

Sunday Dec. 4 1:00 p.m.   Book Launch & Presentation, Yankee Golden Retriever Rescue, Hudson, MA
Thursday, Dec 9 7:00 p.m. Book signing and Presentation, Wayland Public Library, Wayland, MA
Wednesday, January 12 1:00 p.m.Book signing & Presentation , Wayland Senior Center, Wayland, MA

Reminiscing with a Pagey Elliott Scrapbook

(A story for Golden Retriever lovers)

Joy Viola - Pagey ElliotIf you are a “Golden person” you know the name of Rachel Page Elliott. She was the “Grand Dame” of the Golden world with her writings, lectures and research on canine movement. Beloved the world over, many a person came to her door and she welcomed them warmly – whether she knew them or not!

Rachel Page Elliott, “Pagey” was inclined to keep scrapbooks – many of them! Recently while visiting her daughter, Liz, at River Road Farm I had the opportunity to scroll through a scrapbook devoted to the history of the Golden in the words of W.M. Charlesworth, Elma Stonex and Marcia Schlehr. Letters were exchanged along with comments about the writing of others in the days when people still spoke (erroneously) of Russian Circus dogs having been a part of Golden ancestry. Some of the writings dated back to 1938.

One “essay” consisted of Pagey’s recollections of the renowned English breeder, Elma Stonex, i.e. “Elma Stonex Some Cherished Memories.” She wrote of their first exchange of correspondence in 1956, their meeting in England in 1964, and Elma’s trip to the United States in 1968. Pagey wrote:

“Elma came of America in 1968, warning me ahead of time that she did not like seafood and swimming, and she was not too fond of sightseeing. Along with a delightful sense of humor, frankness was one of her virtues.” (Pagey did take her to Plymouth to see the Mayflower, however.)

As I worked my way through the scrapbook, I found 1934 and 1935 newspaper clippings on the Yelme and Aldgrove Golden Retriever kennels with many photos of individual dogs. There were also portrait photos of Sam, John and Maizie Magoffin who did so much to establish the Golden Retriever in the United States and Canada.

There were numerous pages of advertisements from British kennels, candid photos on show grounds and of course, lots of Goldens. One of my favorites was a newspaper photo of the famous Dual Champion David of Wesley delivering a bird at the 1956 Retriever Championship Meeting. Pagey even collected doggie cartoons she found here and there.

There were also numerous articles and publications regarding the first Guisachan Gathering in 2006 including an article by our own Friends of Guisachan Board member, Doreen McGugan about Guisachan House, the founding of the breed, and the activities of that memorable gathering. Also in the scrapbook was the Friends of Guisachan’s Walking Guide to Historic Guisachan.

I used to love going over to the farm and sitting with Pagey talking about the history of the breed. I now realize how early my own parents got into Goldens when I reflect on the years in the 1940’s when they established Winyon Kennels with my name included with theirs on the AKC kennel registration. Our first kennel stud dog was out of Ch. Tonkahof Bang, whose sire was Ch. Goldwood Pluto, grandsire Ch. Rockhaven Rory and then came the Aldgrove dogs of England. I’m afraid my parents didn’t stick with it long and it was not until 1986 when I discovered Yankee Golden Retriever Rescue that I personally got back into the Golden community, despite having Goldens in the family. And once again, the Golden world has been an integral part of my life ever since.

Pagey was more than a friend and mentor, she was my role model in life and remains such to this day. And although she has been gone for several years now, she’s still giving back as I read through her scrapbook and, in turn, shared excerpts with you.

 

A Garden is a Source of Happiness and a Job Forever

I once had a garden club sweatshirt with those sentiments and it certainly is true. I’ve been enjoying my specialty day lilies in bloom, going out each morning to dead head spent blossoms, sometimes as many as 50 plus each day. But now I was noticing stalks with nothing on them and brown leaves at the base.  I had some new lilies that bloomed for about three weeks on 5 ft tall stalks. What to do with them now? So, I rushed inside to Google “cutting back lilies” and got my instructions. While I was there, I checked on the Spiderwort because most of them are now lying down, having done their thing, and the astilbe blossoms were now brown. The Evening Primrose have taken over more territory, so I must pull some out. I’ve no worry. They’ll be back again next year in profusion. In any event, it was clearly time to go out and clean up the garden a bit.

Of course, once I got out there, I found – you guessed it – weeds! How dare they come up amongst my pretties!  I put Preen down, those weeds aren’t supposed to be there. Time to give them another sprinkle, I guess. And oh my, look at the stalks of green berries soon to turn red on my Italian Arum. They were hidden beneath the Spiderwort, but no longer!  The berries are poisonous to humans, but not to the birds. The Spice Bush is blooming and the late-blooming day lilies are just starting to show buds. How I love the way they stretch out the season. The same holds true for the varieties of Hostas I have – about 35 – some are now blooming and some are just starting to show the promise of a flower stalk.

I can’t say my container plantings look very good. The rains we’ve had every day this month but three, I believe, have left the Geraniums, Petunias and Lemon leaf looking like drowned rats. Time to go to the nursery again I guess to refresh the plantings. But my begonias are still looking spectacular in their hanging pots and my New Guinea Impatiens rested a bit, but are now starting to bloom again. But they all needed a bit of leaf pruning.

So after two hours of pruning this, cutting that, dead heading this and pulling up that, I had a heaping wheel barrow full of garden debris. I sat down on my work bench to survey my efforts and my lovely Rose-breasted Grosbeak stopped by and sang me a serenade telling me, I’m sure, that I did a good job, but you’re not done yet, Joy. You didn’t even touch the side garden.  I took a quick peak. Oh my, yes, the Goats Beard spent clusters need clipping and there are day lilies there needing attention Well, if it doesn’t rain tomorrow, perhaps… Unfortunately, by the time I work my way all around the house, I’ll be back where I started and most likely today’s clean bed will be tomorrow’s mess, once more in need of attention. A garden is indeed a job forever.

Not a Wedding but Close to it!

I’ve come to the conclusion that planning my book launching party is somewhat akin to planning a wedding – the search for a facility and a facility available on “good dates”, the menu selection, the arrangements for music, the invitation list, writing the invitations, ordering the envelopes and paper, what else? Oh yes, the music! I’ve been doing it all this past month. I did find a nice facility and tomorrow I go to discuss hors d’oeuvres. I secured the services of a string trio, the envelopes and paper and stamps have arrived, and now I need to go buy a nice pen to address them.

I made up a small flyer but it’s not finalized until I get the cover from the publisher’s designers. Nonetheless, I have five “bookings” for presentations and book signings. I can’t really pursue anymore until close to the time of publication.

Next it becomes a question of how many books to order to have them available for these five events – two of which are large – and for other events that get booked in December and January.

Then there’s the question of equipment – a laptop, projector and screen. Some places have their own equipment which makes it easy – but if I have to purchase a projector, I find they range from $70 to $1000! My local Wayland reference librarian was very helpful in researching articles etc. for make on this point. The photoshop presentation is a work in progress, so that’s yet another concern to factor in.

I asked and five kind people agreed, to write reviews and two of them have come in. As no one but my “reader” and the publisher have read the manuscript, it was wonderful to find people enjoying the stories and my sense of humor. Hopefully that augers well for book sales.

So back to my list making on a dreary rainy afternoon.